Woman upset her baby's daddy bought groceries instead of giving cash

If there's anything people can agree on, it's that the family court system is messed up and often awards women way too much money in child support. Just because a man and a woman can't get along, that shouldn't mean the man has to fork over tons of money when the mother should be putting in her half to raise the child as well. And, with most courts having pretty much no accountability when it comes to the money - meaning they're not really keeping track of how the money is spent, it allows women to take full advantage of the system and spend the money on themselves.

I have a child, so I know how much kids cost, and I know most of the men out there paying child support are paying way too much and the women ain't doing sh*t with their lives. If anything, I believe giving too much child support is enabling of a lazy lifestyle and not really a good example to set for the child. When a man and woman split up, they should put in equal value in cash to take care of the child, make sure kids have the basics like food, healthcare, and clothes - and that's it. Anything mom wants to do on her time - that's her responsibility. Same thing with the dad. The courts need to start making things more fair for the fathers, so they can live their lives too. Neither the mom or dad deserve to suffer.