Woman explains how it feels to be called by the 'Dead Name' (preferred name)

Here's a woman complaining what it's like when people forget to call her, or someone else, by their "PREFERRED" name, which is not their actual name, just the name they decided to be called by. So in other-words, people are calling them by their real name (or now the dead name), but if they forget to use the new preferred name, then they are wrong? Nah, how about we call people by their actual name and not be shamed for it. It's not our fault if YOU change your name to something else and people forget or don't know.